Popping the Cherries and Skinning the Sausage: Guide to First Time Sex

Popping the Cherries and Skinning the Sausage: Guide to First Time Sex

Young couple flirting at barWe can never deny the fact that first time sex is really awkward. Those who can recall are probably feeling chills running down their spines right now. Nervousness envelopes our whole being when we are about to engage things for the first time. When it comes to sex, a lot of unknown questions are sure to pop in our minds.

Just thinking about losing one’s virginity (and this also applies to men) is already stressful. There can be a lot of pressure, most especially when you know your friends are doing it. First time sex simply due to peer pressure could easily turn into something one might regret in the end.

Talking about sex provides us with general information based on real experiences. Anxiety can overtake us. We become very conscious of how we look like naked in front of our partners. It might help to open up to your partner about doing it for the first time. It can ease the tension and lets you feel secure and safe.

1. Pregnancy probability
For sure, pregnancy can result from first time sex. Hence, if you don’t want to get pregnant, please use condoms or other forms of contraceptives.

2. Does it hurt? Does it bleed?
For the girls, yes it does hurt and bleed. The vagina is tight especially for virgins. When it is penetrated, the hymen tears which then leads to bleeding. However, there are cases where bleeding does not occur. This does not necessarily mean that they are not virgins anymore.

To at least ease the pain of initial penetration, use water-based lube. This minimizes the friction and thus lessens the pain and discomfort.

3. Sex and alcohol
As we all know, alcohol is a depressant and numbs our nerves. On the other hand, sex brings forth a sensation that fire up our emotions. Drunken sex is bad sex and can lead you to things that you will later regret. Alcohol impairs our judgment and inhibitions so it’s better to have sober sex.

When it is your first time to have sex, you should really take into strict consideration the consequences you will surely face after the deed. But if you want to go all the way with it, stay calm and relaxed and don’t worry too much about being clumsy the first time. An experienced and loving partner could guide you through it.

Lastly, a quick tip for the virgins, try masturbating in front of the mirror. Exploring your naked self and that wonderful body you have can certainly build your confidence.

Filed Under: Sex Guide : Technique and Communication


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