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What does it mean to be a Bisexual? Confessions of Bisexual
I am a 24 year old female, young, wild and free yuppie and living a good life. But there’s something in me that I am confusedly keeping to myself and to some close friends whom I trust the most. It is something related to my personal identity, specifically my sexual identity. To be honest, [...]
Having Sex for the First Time
There can be lot of pressure to lose your virginity – that is, to have sexual intercourse for the first time. Having sex with someone just because you want to lose your virginity, or because you think all your friends are doing it, is something you may regret later. You might feel lots of anxieties, [...]
General questions about Sex
How do you have sex? How to have sex is actually quite simple. When a man’s penis becomes hard, he places it inside a woman’s vagina, and moves it in and out. This creates friction which is pleasurable for both the man and the woman. After a while, this friction will usually cause the man [...]
Am I a lesbian ?
“Well am I or aren’t I… a lesbian?” This is a question that many young women might ask themselves as they grow up. Part of growing up is discovering your sexuality and learning about yourself – as all young people grow up they start to become aware of other people – and start to find [...]
From Rape to Sexual Assault
One of the most prevalent misconceptions about sexual violence is that it is sexual. The big lie is that the perpetrator couldn’t control himself, he found her so attractive that he had to…etc. This suggested that rape was an outgrowth of some instinctual genetic imperative. Individual men were seen to have no control of their [...]
Using Condoms, Condom Types and Sizes
Why do I need to use a condom? Condoms are the only form of protection that can both help to stop thetransmission of sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) such as HIV and prevent pregnancy. Getting ready, choosing the right condom A number of different types of condom are now available. What isgenerally called a condom is [...]
Homosexuality Misconceptions and Myths
Homophobia means the fear–and often hatred–of gay or lesbian people. As an out lesbian, I have addressed that fear many times. I have soothed anxious parents of gay teens and reassured angry protestors that I, nor any other gay person I know, has any intention of interfering with their day to day lives. Yes, sometimes [...]